QUOTE (actor59 @ May 4, 2008 - 09:57 PM)

What a beautiful day Sunny and Nice,, The Hornets beat the Spurs last night... Last day of Jazz Feast..... I'm watching a movie on the couch see police car after police car go back notice some cars are reverseing the wrong way down our street. I go out to my stoop and wonder why there are so many police at the end of my block? Jenn comes out looks and says what the Hell is going on? A crowd is starting to happen at the end of the block.
We mosey down to see what is going on? Well how can such a great day turn so badly in an instance? Turns out a good friend of ours and three other people were standing on the sidewalk talking and a 15 year old girl being given a driving lesson comes around the corner hits the gas and plows into them on the sidewalk. Our Friend Billy was killed... I had just talked to him two days ago another friend Mike is in the Hospital... they say he will be fine....
Life is taken so quickly now a days...

This is a dumb thing to say, but it just feels fundamentally wrong for anyone to die in the spring when the trees are flowering and all the perennials are just starting to pop up like magic, here at least.
It's so terrible, for you, your friends, their loved ones, and for a child who has to live with the fact that she has taken a life, and for the adult who was responsible for her at that time.
Recently, I've stopped driving because of a new prescription that makes me drowsy and slows my responses significantly. I'm going to stop feeling sorry for myself and thank my lucky stars not to be tempting heartless fate.
Though, I'm bad at this kind of post, the way you communicate makes it necessary for me to try. The pain here is universal. Your post is universal in that in day to day life things just happen with no rhyme or reason or foreshadowing of eerie music or thunderstorm. And the next day the sun comes up and the broken glass is swept away and the world goes on oblivious to the bleeding in your soul.
And I guess this is how things make sense to me, in universal terms because it's difficult for me to get personal about loss, but I am sorry for you and everyone who has lost a loved one. It is what I fear most.