QUOTE (KSboy @ May 30, 2008 - 01:04 PM)

Simon, do all your family members have the same attitude re bone-in-fish as you have? If so, maybe I should dump Partner for you. (Just kidding!

) I really do love most of the Filipino food that Partner and in-laws feed me all the time. But my number one annoyance by far is the bones they leave in the cooked fish they serve -- even in fish soups! They just don't seem to get how difficult it can be for someone to eat fish that way who simply was not trained how to do it as a kid.
KS, long story, no Viet family members to speak of, but I do know all about the Annoyance of the Bones.
If Spike or anyone else wants to elevate Vietnamese to a world-class cuisine, the place to start is with eliminating unmanageable bones from fish dishes. And eliminating the resulting Debris Field that decorates a dining table during a meal, with bones and fragments and god knows what that thing is laying all over the place.
To me, there's few things as revolting as watching a fellow diner spit out a mouthful of fish bones into her hand and dump that into a bowl on the table.
I'm very strict about bones, and never serve a fish soup or any fish dish that has tiny bones all throughout. To be honest, I don't know what is the hold-up with Viet technique, not catching up with the rest of the world. It's very easy to make boneless equivalents of all the Canh Chua soups, the seafood egg drop soups, etc. Filet that damb fish, make your soup broth with the bones and head, season it, then make your soup. You
cannot make a good Canh Chua by starting with just fish fillets, that claim is true... but you need never serve people a dish that requires me to go get the Fish Hook Remover so I can dislodge bones from throats.
All the Viet "haute cuisine" places do it exactly as I do... all those fish bones are for making your broth, not for eating.